Expectations.

I have this kind of view and message,about how funny the situation when people have wrong expectations towards me, and other people. (And a little emotions too)

We always have our own reasoning and deductions, gathered from various medium of facts and experience in life, which sadly me and i'm very sure anybody too,fails in giving good examples and how to behave in certain situations, along with specific expectations.

Complicated much? In a simpler version, it's how we deal with random people along with their responsibilities. And yes, their expected responsibilities. :)

You might expect  your husband/wife to be a loving person, the one that take care 24 hours a day. But sometimes, it might not seems to be so.

You might expect your friend will be there when you in pain, and there for you to be happy.But sometimes, it might not seems to be so.

And yes, there is lots of 'you might expect ' thingy, as we, involved in lots of relationship.

The thing that i want to argue about is expected responsibilities towards other people. One does not simply have all their expectations fulfilled. I might give more attention to my career and study for a week, than expecting to entertain all my friends, spending some times for them for a years. It's not a problem.

And always, the debate comes out as in the rants, the hopes, the illusion of the reality on the past shattered, people change and bla bla. Why don't we look into them, understands.

Because if you hope and expecting something from others, you should know them better, and make sufficient provisions to deal with the 'right' amount of expectations. The 'right' of everything.

I believe, there is bestfriends that can live happily through little times together. I believe, there is perfect couple, whose understand each other responsibility well.

There is modern sayings of 'expect the unexpected'. It would be beautiful, if sometimes, the sweet thing that you won't expect will comes suddenly from the sky. Romeo and Juliet might not practicing their romantic lines everyday, but through hardship , it all comes naturally. Just be patient.And knowing the best is yet to come.

p/s: I wonder, why the person that knows me better, always take me wrong. sobs :(