Nice guy, always finish last.

The paranoia, the fear, and the means for being a nice guy for a nice girl is always in questions.

I like the term of "Mr agreeable" , the ones who committed, all out in their relationship thingy, the ones who say yes to the no's , and the ones, who scared, that the cloud nine of the relationship, falls and shattered. This is what the nice guy will do. He believes that she's the one. He believes, every promises he makes with the girl sealed in the god's to-do-list, in making such expectations, into something that is meant to be.

Funny, there is always, the guy, the friends, who gives the best advice in relationship, stay single for a long time. They know the parameters, the outcomes, and the tricks, but somehow failed, as this one guy, is a nice guy who keeps being nice and agreeable. And the words spread, being too nice is just a way to get fucked up. And the much cliche, sayings of the sayings (all time favourite) to this one heartbreaking session was;

you're too good, for me. :)

Tell me in exact words, dear girls. They keep falling to the ones, that keep hurting them. They keep falling to  jerks, the ones who thinks, you're just an options. Or maybe a check-boxes, that can be ticked more than one , simultaneously. And i believe, as the karma goes around and round, this sentiment still enclosed, keep hidden, as the nice guy keep mourning, about the death, of their little angels in his smaller planet because of the loss. There you go, nice guy oh nice guy, always finish last.

I'm a guy who involves and commit into lots of competition. And i have perceive every glory, was partly because of luck, and of course by not being so nice. In the world of football, the aggression, dirty tactics was just a small part to become a champion. The survival of the fittest does not simply by being fair. And i think, being too nice is overrated. Study? Cheating gets you the higher marks. And the paragraph concludes, yes, a champion always a nice one who keeps being nice. Who plays a good game, but, sometimes, (you know what i mean). Being fair, is really overrated.

Tell me, what is fair in Palestine-Israel issues. The me, what is fair in misjudged penalty? And tell me, do you being fair to yourself? To your god?

So, the point here, nice guy finish last. So, girls, you like the guy who finish last? Laugh now, because somehow, i believe and believe, there is nice guy, only for a nice girl. Who is also finish last, but will be having a last laugh.

And another point here, don't be so involved in your love story, committed like hell (padahal kapel je pun) , as i remember that one friend always say this thing to me ;

"harapan tu jangan jauh sangat meroket, nnti kalau jatuh, sakit"

I believe too, the girl don't need a nice guy that is too agreeable on everything as the relationship needs a false check and colorful biodata to make you attractive. I believe, they need something called a 'great guy'. Who can leads them, show them to the right path, and imam to her and family.

So, i'm not telling you to become a jerks, if you may try, just be a great guy. Or just being a nice guy, WITH PATIENCE, as nice girl is really hard to find. True story. :)